Embarrassing Texting

Yesterday I have chatting with my friend Ria. Here below the chronology:
Ria: "Night Ito, how are you?" (Ito is the way batak people calls the opposite gender on relatively same age).
Me: "Night, I'm fine. How is Banjar's girl?"
Ria: "Why you call me as Banjar's girl? Hmm, it seems I am texting to wrong guy"
Me: "It's OK to call you Banjar's girl because currently you are in Banjarmasin, at least for next month, hehe.. Anw, since when did you decide to call me Ito?"
Ria: "Oh.. I think I am chatting with wrong guy, sorry..."
Me: "No, I'm the right one. I'm OK with the way you call me. Obviously you still remember the Batak's culture, proud of you."
Ria: " Now, I'm very sure that you are wrong guy. For confirmation, do you really know my name?"
Me: (after recheck the sender) "Ups, you aren't wrong sending the text. I am the one who wrongly reply it. Sory Ria, I thought it was my other friend, It's very embarrassing."
Ria: "It is OK, it's just ordinary"
Me: "Ok, sorry Ito.."
Ria: "That's OK, just forget it."

Actually, when i received the message from Ria I thought it was from Raissa. I tought from Raissa Silalahi instead of from Ria Silalahi. Raissa is my new friend and Ria is my old friend. Since Raissa is my new friend and coincidentally I was discuss about her with my roommate, I thought Raissa is the sender. It's very embarrassing when know that I was texting in wrong perception about the person i chat with, haha..
PS: Read the sender name carefully before reply the SMS

Realizing

It's been so long I don't write something here. I think I had been so busy that I didn't see this quite blog. Actually, I was lazy instead of busy, hehe..
Ok,I'll try to write something about what 'realizing'. Realizing is condition when you fully understand about your position in a circumstances. After realizing you will know how to act and/or react correctly.
It's very good when you can realize something yourself. But, sometimes we need intervention from people around. The intervention usually come from people whose understanding of the circumstances is better than us. In work, the realizing intervention usually come from our boss.
Try to realize deeply so you can act and/or react correctly and at the end you will get great achievement.
-just realizing that I'm just trainee-